Miaomiao doesn’t want to take afternoon nap this morning. She plays her magnetic building blocks with her grandma excitedly for a long time after lunch. So i take her to the Children’s Playground in the RT-Market nearby at nearly four o’clock in the afternoon as she desired yesterday.
She is very excited and happy to play in the Children’s Playground. She runs to the small toy house and climbs to the third floor sevral times. She also plays other facilities here. We start to play the large plastic building blocks together with other kids after a while.
While playing those building blocks with Miaomiao, i find she keeps on shaking all the time. From the past experience i know she wants to pee now. But she doesn’t admit it and crys loudly that she doesn’t want to pee. So i don’t ask her to pee any more and continue to play with her.
After a while, she starts to walk on a narrow bridge and sevral small seats. Then she follows another two little girl to climb across some small barriers. I notice she always drags her pants at this time. So i ask her if she wants to pee again. She says yes this time and from her face i know she wants to pee in a hurry. She has held back her urine for a long time. So i hurried to take her to the nearest trash can and take off her pants for her to pee. There is no time to take her to the toilet which is a bit far away from here. She is probably wetting her pants on the way. Actually she still wets her underpants a bit even if i take her to pee in the shortest time in the trash can.
I ask her to tell me earlier next time if she wants to pee, as there is no need to hold back urine for a long time. Also it would be more comfortable to pee in time and then play again. But she doesn’t want to listen to me at all. She answers ok at last under my chatter. But i know she is likely to holding back urine till it’s too hard to hold back it again next time. Because she usually holds back urine these days. And we have told her to pee in time many many times. But she always continues to hold back urine especially when she is playing something happily.
I don’t know why she likes to hold back urine sometimes. Maybe because she is too fond of play? Or maybe because i have asked her to hold back urine for a little while before it was ready to pee when she was two years old last year and always wetted pants at that time. Anyhow, i hope i can help her get rid of this bad habit soon. As she will go to the kindergarten in less than two months.