This morning Miaomiao losed her temper when i was helping her to wear her pants.
She yelled and cried continuously “no i want to wear myself…oh both legs in this hole…it’s not like this…mummy helps me…no i want to wear myself, you go away…don’t go away and don’t do like this…i don’t want to wear the pants…just naked and go out side… “, everytime i followed her words and did what she wanted for her, she said no and cried louder and louder… At last my patience had gone and i took her to her grandma’s room. And then, i found she stopped yelling and crying and talked with her grandma and soon wear the pants well. Which made me feel so depressed!
I don’t know why she was so rebellious this morning, and actually she has liked to lose her temper for sevral months. Maybe because she is just in this period of her life, “Baby Rebellious Period “, unwilling to listen to her parents, hoping to express herself and say “no” if others want to intervene her. At beginning i often said no to her unreasonable desire but it didn’t work at all and she kept on crying. Then i just controlled my temper and listened to her if her requirements was not that unacceptable. But recently when her grandparents were living with us, i found that she losed her temper more often and her grandma’s words was more useful to her than mine. Maybe because they almost always say “yes” to her and can better satisfy her?
Just hope she is fine and loses temper less, as it’s really hard to satisfy a rebellious baby. Do you agree?